Ask Questions and Listen Carefully
When approaching a man in a bar, it’s important to remember to stay friendly yet flirty. Make use of the environment around you by engaging in activities like pool or darts. Ask if they’re willing to get to know each other better, and reframe any potential negative mindset. Listen actively and with empathy, ask probing questions, and speak slowly and carefully. Pay attention to the person’s non-verbal communication, ask simple questions to gain more information, and listen carefully without making any judgements. Doing this will create a positive experience and help build a connection.